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December 2015

Brick of Belief

December 17, 2015

Belief: Something one accepts as true or real; a firmly held opinion or conviction.

Have you ever believed in something or someone so much that you would bet your last dollar on them and their success? No one can tell you different about this person or their abilities, because you know without a shadow of a doubt that they are walking on a path that leads to happiness and blessings. Now, would ever believe that this person betted on is YOU?!

Most people have an idea of the life that they want to live complete with all of their hearts desires. This could be a life with your family together and unified in happiness, at your dream job fulfilling your passion, or even helping others to be the best version of themselves. Whatever picture is painted in your mind as your perfect life, know that in order to obtain this life you must lay your foundation and work hard for it. However, what I’ve learned recently is that the most important brick in laying this foundation is your ability to believe. I’m not talking about any belief, because we can all believe in ourselves and our work ethic to get things done, but what about when that work ethic doesn’t produce results. What about when all of the arrows seem to be pointed in the opposite direction of your dream, and you can’t seem to understand all the “how’s” and “why’s” during the obstacles in your journey? These are the critical moments that have the power to either push you off your path into a dead-end, or push you into your destiny through unwavering belief.

Belief has the power to break any bondage that the enemy tries to place on you. It has the strength to carry you over and through any dense fog and thunderstorms that your path may produce. But best of all…it has the power to make anyone who places a bet on your success in life a champion! …..winner-winner chicken dinner !! πŸ™‚





Givenchy Crystal Stud Earrings

Heel and Sole Sexy Strappy Heel

Quay Kittie Cat-Eye Sunglasses

Mural ‘Honey’ Blazer (Nordstrom Online Exclusive)

H&M+ Long Shirt – White

Toad&Co Sidekick Jegging

 

Photographer: Minx of 2minxinx.com

 

Xo, Chrissy Joy

Writings on the Wall

December 3, 2015

Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one -Colossians 4:6 

Have you ever had someone critique you, but not in a way that was meant to help you learn from past mistakes or build you up? Their words were intentionally meant to bring you down and make you question your value, or if you can ever change from making those mistakes. At this point, those words have become embedded as written words on the wall of your heart that are hard to erase with any store-bought eraser or flimsy apologies.

I’ve been learning this past week about how much power we have with our words. When they aren’t used correctly or don’t build others up they can easily become the demise of someone’s drive or happiness. The worst part is sometimes we don’t even realize when we’ve done it. I can admit that every now and then I can have a sarcastic mouth and say things directed towards others in a joking manner. But you can always tell when that sarcasm isn’t quite perceived the way you intended it by the facial expression of the person who was supposed to be laughing…but isn’t. By this time, no matter how many times you say “it’s a joke, lighten up!” or “I see someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning!” those words have already been written in stone on the wall of that persons heart.

It wasn’t until I had the same situation happen to me and got a taste of my own medicine that I felt that sting, and started to question how many of my seemingly harmless sarcastic sayings had caused this same sting to others! It only takes a few seconds to put out words of hurt, but once they’re said you can never take them back.

Most people will say the solution to this problem is to “think before you speak”, which definitely is a great start, but I know that the odds of me actually stopping to analyze what I’m gonna say will take one too many seconds for my liking (I used to have horrible patience!). It wasn’t until I added prayer for patience, and for the words that come from my mouth to edify others, that I began to see results. I also asked God to help me uplift others and to not be so hurtful with my jokes. I wanted others to leave my presence happy, full of joy and motivated for the future not feeling negative about it.

We all have the power to do the same thing with our words. Be intentional about being the light in someone’s life with what you say! If their day hasn’t seen any sunshine yet, let it begin to shine the moment you open your mouth! πŸ™‚

 




** All items that I am wearing are available for purchase at below links, unfortunately my booties are no longer available at Zara, but I found a super cute alternative that is now on sale at Macy’s at the below link! ** 

H&M Rib-knit Hat – Gray melange β€’ H&M β€’

H&M Turtleneck Sweater – Light beige melange β€’ H&M β€’

H&M 2-pack Over-knee Socks – Gray/black β€’ H&M β€’

H&M 6-pack Rings – Gold-colored β€’ H&M β€’

Thalia Sodi Ohlivia Side Lace-Up Booties, Only at Macy’s β€’ Thalia Sodi β€’

 Roslin Wool Asymetrical Hoodie : Available by Order at Roslin.nyc@gmail.com



Photographer: Najah Cobb

 

Xo, Chrissy Joy